Make Financial Room for Baby
When Jennifer and Pat Wennerstrom, Lake in the Hills, Ill., decided to have a child, thoughts of first smiles, first giggles, and first steps warmed their hearts as they waited for baby Brooke to arrive. Now that she's here, the couple couldn't be happier with their new little addition. The only thing that could make life any better would be if they could eliminate the second, much larger, bundle the stork delivered--the expense.
According to the U.S. Agriculture Department, a middle-class family can expect to pay an estimated $184,000 to raise a baby from birth to age 17. Jennifer and Pat still are in the very early stages of paying down this "debt," but the financial impact already is beginning to take its toll.
"Even grocery shopping is more of a challenge than it was before," says Jennifer "I was always so fortunate not to really think about everything we placed in our cart before the baby. Now we really try not to deviate from our shopping list and calculate everything before we go to the register. If we go over our budget, I select items that we can do without until next week and put them back."
There's no doubt that starting a family is a wonderful step in a couple's life--and an expensive one. While the financial responsibilities are only one piece of parenthood, they can't be overlooked. Just as you plan for the baby by selecting colors for the nursery and picking the baby's name, you also should plan how you will tackle added expenses.
"Finances, like parenthood, are different for each family," says Kathy Hetzel, family living educator for the University of Wisconsin Extension in Madison. "In general, parenthood is a shifting of values and lifestyles where needed. Some parents only want new, never-been-used furniture and clothes for their babies. Others are accepting and appreciative of hand-me-downs."
Creating a baby budget can help reduce money stress.
No matter what your financial style, creating a baby budget can help reduce money stress before it has an impact. Here's a list of expenses you'll likely need to consider when creating your baby budget:
The realization of what you'll be spending when the newborn arrives can be overwhelming; that's why it's important to have a financial plan of attack. Hetzel says parents should start by saving enough money before the newborn arrives to help pay for any unpaid maternity and/or paternity leave.
"The family who plans tends to be more willing and able to accept the life-long responsibilities of the decision," she says. "Couples decide that their life is less about themselves and instead will make decisions benefiting the children and family."
It can cost an estimated $184,000 to raise a baby from birth to age 17.
Start by assessing your current finances. When reviewing expenses, Hetzel offers these tips:
Even if you feel like you're scraping to get by, you still have assets that need to be protected. Consider these areas to see if you're comfortable with the level of protection available to your family.
Step three--the future
Your finances may be in pretty good order for now, but it's just as important to plan for tomorrow as it is for today. As your child becomes elementary-school and high-school age, clothes and activity expenses will increase--and let's not forget about college. On top of that, you still need to plan for retirement.
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